Communities, states, and nations are stronger when families are strong because the family unit is the core unit of society. According to a newsletter to Heritage Foundation members, the “family is the cornerstone of any successful country.”
The
newsletter stated that “the American family is in crisis” and then gave several
solid pieces of evidence for the statement: (1) “Marriage rates are near
historic lows” with “One in three Americans … projected never to marry.” (2) “Birth
rates continue to fall.” (3) America faces an epidemic of broken homes.”
America
is in crisis. “If we don’t solve this crisis, we will face an unprecedented
level of societal decline in America. We must act now.”
The Heritage Foundation is working to solve the crisis and “launched a groundbreaking new report, “Saving America by Saving the Family: A Foundation for the Next 250 Years.” The report is summarized as follows.
To end America’s family crisis, policymakers and civic
leaders should treat restoring the family home as a matter of justice, driven
by two truths. The first is that all children have a right to the affection and
protection of the man and woman who created them. The second is that the ideal
environment in which to exercise this right is in a loving and stable home with
their married biological parents. In contrast, the default in American culture
today is to put the desires of adults over the needs of children. Children are
too often called to sacrifice what is due to them – the presence of their mom
and dad under the same roof for the entirety of their childhood.
The
report posted three key takeaways from the material.
1.
The family is the foundation of civilization, and marriage – the committed
union of one man and one woman – is its cornerstone. It is the seedbed of
self-government.
2.
The question that will determine the course of America’s future is: What
happens to a nation when its citizens largely stop having children and eschew
marriage?
3.
The only way for America to thrive in the future is to rebuild the family –
which can only happen with a societal commitment to revive the institution of
marriage.
According
to the newsletter, “This report provides a full breakdown of the tragic state
of the American family along with innovative policy solutions to encourage
family formation.” The newsletter then offers the following three policy solutions.
1. Stop Punishing Married Families
Right
now, America’s welfare programs heavily discourage marriage and traditional
family formation. This must be reversed….
That
is why Congress and the administration should eliminate all marriage penalties
in welfare programs, impose work requirements, and end waste, fraud, and abuse
that take resources away from hardworking American families.
2. Restore the American Dream
The
President should issue a series of executive orders requiring every federal
policy, regulation, or grant to explicitly measure how it helps or harms
marriage and family, and block or support those actions accordingly.
Congress
must also reform and cut large spending programs that feed off the work of
Americans and drain them of the ability to save and build a future for their
children.
3. Actively Support Marriage and Working Families
The
federal government should also make up for the wholesale damage it has done to
the family across generations. This includes deposits into new investment
accounts for newborns redeemable when Americans get married.
Policymakers
should also apply the current child adoption tax credit to married parents for
each of their newborns. And they should make every credit, program, and tax
benefit provided for paid childcare available for at-home parental child
raising. Saving the American family will also require a society-wide cultural
renewal….
When political think tanks and prophets are both sounding the same alarm, we can know that there is a fundamental problem. President Dallin H. Oaks – then-President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and now-President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints – spoke about the importance of marriage and bearing children six months ago at the bi-annual general conference of the Church of Jesus Christ. The Church News summarized his remarks as follows, but his entire talk can be found here.
The
Church’s doctrine centers on the family. “Our relationship to God and the
purpose of our mortal life are explained in terms of the family.” The gospel
plan’s intended destiny is to exalt God’s children in eternal families.
Marriages
and birthrates are declining. “It is vital that Latter-day Saints do not lose
their understanding of the purpose of marriage and the value of children. That
is the future for which we strive.”
Latter-day
Saints have a God-given responsibility to teach their children to prepare for
eternity. They can do this even through divorce, death and separation.
Parents,
single or married, and others like grandparents who fill that role, are the
master teachers for children.
Have
love and patience for family members who do not embrace gospel values and
expectations. Repentance and spiritual growth are still possible.
Families
unite when they do meaningful things together, such as gardening, camping,
sports activities, recreation, reunions, working in the yard and home, learning
languages and more. Families flourish when they learn together and counsel
together.
Blessings
come to families as they pray and worship together, share family stories,
create traditions and share sacred experiences.
The sealing powers in the temple bring families together for eternity.