We can strengthen
our families, communities, and nations by teaching the rising generation that
truth is truth. We must teach our
children and youth that eternal truths were established by God and will stand
forever - unless God changes them. We
must teach our families that truth does not change to fit situations or
desires. A discussion of a few eternal
truths that are being batted around the world now days follows.
The first eternal truth I want
to discuss is the fact that there is a God in heaven. He is our Heavenly Father, and He loves each
of us more than we can even imagine. He
established a plan for our happiness before this earth was even created. The central part of our Father’s plan is the
Atonement of His Son, Jesus Christ. The
teachings of the gospel of Jesus Christ are here on earth to help us prepare to
return to the presence of our Father. Any
person who teaches there is no God has succumbed to the influence of Satan and
can be considered to be an anti-Christ.
Satan is real and desires all of us to be as miserable as he is;
therefore, he teaches the falsehood that there is no God.
A second eternal truth is that
God created man and woman to be complimentary halves of a whole. God created men differently than He created
women and gave each gender separate traits and responsibilities, but He considers
them as equal in worth and value. God
wants His sons and daughters to work together for the good of all mankind. An important part of this truth is that marriage
between a man and a woman is ordained of God for the specific purpose of
creating and rearing families. God gave
each gender certain traits, qualities, and strengths to bring to the marriage
and family.
A third eternal truth is that
any sexual relations outside of a traditional and legal marriage constitute sin. This God-established truth cannot be changed
simply because a vocal minority demands a silent majority to approve of their life
style. Even if same-sex marriage is
legalized, it is still immoral because God has proclaimed it to be sin.
All of these eternal truths are being
challenged in the same sex marriage struggle.
Religious leaders have been speaking out on this subject for several
weeks. Members of LGBT thought Pope
Francis was endorsing their life style when he said, “Who am I to judge a gay
person of goodwill who seeks the Lord?”
That is a very good question and deserves an answer: Neither the Pope nor any other human being
has the right to judge anyone else. Each
of us will one day stand before Jesus Christ to be judged by Him who knows all
things.
After Pope Francis asked “Who am
I to judge….” Franklin Graham, son of Billy Graham, was asked on
December 31, 2013, if his position on gays would “shift.” Graham answered, “God would have to shift,
and God doesn’t. God’s word is the same
yesterday and today and a million years from now, that it’s sin.”
On December 20, 2013, a federal
district judge in Salt Lake City issued an order legalizing same-sex marriage
in Utah. His judgment struck down state
laws that have stood for more than a century as well as a state constitutional
amendment that defined marriage exclusively as between a man and a woman. Officials for the State of Utah took the case
to the Supreme Court who put that ruling on hold pending consideration of the
issue by an appellate court.
In the days leading up to the
ruling by the Supreme Court, hundreds of same-sex couples applied for marriage
licenses and were married. After the
Supreme Court ruling, the State of Utah issued a statement that they would not
recognize any same-sex marriage until the case goes through the court system.
This did not stop the Obama Administration from taking
action. On January 10, 2014, Attorney
General Eric Holder announced, “I am confirming today that, for purposes of
federal law, these marriages will be recognized as lawful and considered
eligible for all relevant federal benefits on the same terms as other same-sex
marriages.”
The First Presidency and the
Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints issued instructions and guidance to congregational leaders throughout
the United States and published the following statement:
“As we face this and other
issues of our time, we encourage all to bear in mind our Heavenly Father’s
purposes in creating the earth and providing for our mortal birth and
experience here as His children. `God
created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and
female created he them. And God blessed
them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the
earth’ (Genesis 1:27-28). `Therefore
shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his
wife: and they shall be one flesh’
(Genesis 2:24). Marriage between a man
and a woman was instituted by God and is central to His plan for His children
and for the well-being of society. Strong
families, guided by a loving mother and father, serve as the fundamental
institution for nurturing children, instilling faith, and transmitting to
future generations the moral strengths and values that are important to
civilization and crucial to eternal salvation.
“Changes in the civil law do
not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His
commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society. His law of chastity is clear: sexual relations are proper only between a
man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife. We urge you to review and teach Church
members the doctrine contained in `The Family:
A Proclamation to the World.’
“Just as those who promote
same-sex marriage are entitled to civility, the same is true for those who
oppose it. The Church insists on its
leaders’ and members’ constitutionally protected right to express and advocate
religious convictions on marriage, family, and morality free from retaliation
or retribution. The Church is also
entitled to maintain its standards of moral conduct and good standing for
members.
“Consistent with our fundamental
beliefs, Church officers will not employ their ecclesiastical authority to
perform marriages between two people of the same sex, and the Church does not
permit its meetinghouses or other properties to be used for ceremonies,
receptions, or other activities associated with same-sex marriages. Nevertheless, all visitors are welcome to our
chapels and premises so long as they respect our standards of conduct while
there.
“While these matters will
continue to evolve, we affirm that those who avail themselves of laws or court
rulings authorizing same-sex marriage should not be treated disrespectfully. The gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us to love
and treat all people with kindness and civility – even when we disagree.
“As members of the Church, we
are responsible to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ and to illuminate the great
blessings that flow from heeding God’s commandments as well as the inevitable
consequences of ignoring them. We invite
you to pray that people everywhere will have their hearts softened to the
truths of the gospel, and that wisdom will be granted to those who are called
upon to decide issues critical to society’s future.”
As a member of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I stand with the First Presidency and the
Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. I will
continue to follow their counsel in all matters because I believe they
represent God. A blogger at NieNie Dialogues expressed beautifully
many of my own feelings about this situation.
Like her, I will stand with the prophet.
I know that truth is truth and truth does not depend on the world to
define it. We can strengthen our
families, communities, and nations by standing for truth at all times.