Our families, communities, and
nations will be strengthened when we teach the real meaning of Easter to
children. These instructions must take place in our homes and churches because
the surrounding society has a worldly view of Easter.
I believe that it is possible to
teach the true meaning of Easter as well as have fun with the season. Just as the
spirit of Santa and the Nativity story can both be enjoyed and taught at
Christmas, we can teach of the Atonement and Resurrection of Jesus Christ and still
enjoy Easter baskets and new clothes. The important thing is to teach the real
story without letting the festivities overshadow it!
Our family enjoys all the fun of
both Easter and Christmas, while at the same time teaching the true meaning of
the holidays. We simply separate them in such a way that children understand
the sacredness of the holiday without feeling that they are missing out on any
excitement. We celebrate the Nativity on Christmas Eve and the Santa Claus
stuff on Christmas Day. We reverse the process for Easter by doing the fun
stuff on Saturday and celebrating the sacred meaning on Sunday. In order to do
this, we had to decide what was important, where we would put our focus, and
what we would minimize.
Early in my motherhood I discovered
that Easter baskets on Easter morning did not sit well with the true meaning of
Easter. I contacted the Easter Bunny and asked if he would mind bringing
baskets to my children on the previous day. He had no problem with my request,
and my children received their Easter baskets on Saturday morning from that
time forward. They could find their baskets, play with their toys, and eat all
the candy that they wanted on Saturday. By Saturday night the excitement and sugar
had worn off.
Then we celebrated Easter by going to
our Sunday meetings without children being hyped up on sugar and with the
excitement of baskets behind them. Our Sunday activities were in keeping the
Sabbath Day holy and focusing on the Savior. Our children apparently liked this
approach because they continue the same traditions in their homes.
There are probably people who think
that I have one foot in Zion and one foot in Babylon in my approach to these
sacred holidays. I believe that there is moderation in all things. Children
often rebel when parents are too strict or try to force their beliefs on them.
I took a survey of the four children
in my Primary class on Sunday. We had our Easter lesson that day because
General Conference will be held on Easter and we will not be meeting that day.
All four children said that they receive their Easter baskets on Sunday
morning. All four children were more excited about their Easter baskets than
the sacred meaning of Easter. I did not share my family’s traditions, but I
felt confirmation that my way was best for my family.
Every family must decide where they will place their focus and
how they will teach the sacred meaning of Easter. I urge you to at least consider
separating the celebration in order to concentrate on the Savior on Easter. We
can strengthen our families, communities, and nations by teaching the true
meaning of Easter.
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