Much has changed since the days when my great-grandparents practiced polygamy. Many of my ancestors were among the early converts to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I have numerous ancestors who practiced polygamy, some of whom spent time in prison because of the practice.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that “marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children” (The Family – A Proclamation to the World). However, some members of the Church of Jesus Christ practiced polygamy for about fifty years.
[Members of the Church of Jesus Christ] believe that God commanded early Latter-day Saints to practice polygamy for a time. While Latter-day Saints today do not know all the reasons for God’s command, they do understand some reasons why God would command the practice of polygamy. For example, the Book of Mormon teaches that men should have only one wife (see Jacob 2:27-29), unless the Lord commands His people to “raise up seed unto [Him]” (Jacob 2:30). The practice of plural marriage by early Latter-day Saints did lead to an increase in the number of children born to Church members.
Early Latter-day Saints also believed that the establishment of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints included a restoration of ancient
principles and practices, as taught in the Bible. It is clear from the Bible
that multiple prominent Biblical figures – including Abraham, Isaac, Jacob,
Moses, and David – practiced polygamy….
Members of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints no longer practice polygamy. In fact, the Church of
Jesus Christ prohibits its practice. Official Declaration 1 states the following
about polygamy.
The Bible and the Book of Mormon teach
that monogamy is God’s standard for marriage unless He declares otherwise (see
2 Samuel 12:7-8 and Jacob 2:27, 30). Following a revelation to Joseph Smith,
the practice of plural marriage was instituted among Church members in the
early 1840s (see Doctrine and Covenants 132). From the 1860s to the 1880s, the
United States government passed laws to make this religious practice illegal. These
laws were eventually upheld by the U.S. Supreme Court. After receiving
revelation, President Wilford Woodruff issued the following Manifesto, which
was accepted by the Church as authoritative and binding on October 6, 1890.
This led to the end of the practice of plural marriage in the Church.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints prohibits the practice of polygamy and has done so since the Manifesto was
given in October 1890. President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910-2008) explained the
current position of the Church of Jesus Christ on polygamy:
I wish to state categorically that this
Church has nothing whatever to do with those practicing polygamy….
If any of our members are found to be
practicing plural marriage, they are excommunicated, the most serious penalty
the Church can impose.
Not only are those so involved in direct
violation of the civil law, they are in violation of the law of this Church. An
article of our faith is binding upon us. It states, “We believe in being
subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring,
and sustaining the law” (Articles of Faith 1:12). One cannot obey the law and
disobey the law at the same time….
More than a century ago God clearly
revealed unto His prophet Wilford Woodruff that the practice of plural marriage
should be discontinued, which means that it is now against the law of God. Even
in countries where civil or religious law allows polygamy, the Church teaches
that marriage must be monogamous and does not accept into its membership those
practicing plural marriage (“What Are People Asking about Us?” Ensign, Nov.
1998, 71-72).
For more than twenty years, members
of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints were persecuted for
practicing polygamy. The United States government threatened to confiscate all
Church property and to imprison all Church leaders. President Woodruff
recognized that the Church could not complete its mission without its leaders
and without its temples. When he took the problem to the Lord, he received the
Manifesto and told to end the practice of polygamy.
Members of the Church of Jesus
Christ stopped practicing polygamy, but they continued to believe in the
principle of plural marriage. None of us know if the practice will return to
the Church or not. However, I can now understand how the practice could return
to Church practices -- particularly if there is a great war and the number of
men is limited (as discussed in Isaiah 3-4 and 2 Nephi 13:25, 14:1).
More than a decade ago, same-sex
marriage became legal in the United States and many other nations. Now we face
the challenges of transgenderism. Even as we face this challenges, two cities in Massachusetts have “officially recognized polyamorous relationships as an
acceptable form of domestic partnership. Somerville, Massachusetts, made it
official last summer, and the Cambridge City Council did it this month. Readers
may remember that Massachusetts was the first state to legalize same-sex
marriage.
You may question what the connection
is between polygamy and polyamory. This site discusses the two terms and
describes some differences between them. Polygamy and polyamory both
begin with poly, which is a Greek root word for “many.” “Both terms
describe multiple partner relationships.” Polyamory means multiple
loves, while polygamy means multiple spouses.
The biggest difference between polyamory
and polygamy is the gender of the partners. In polyamory, anyone of any gender
can have multiple partners – the gender of the person or their partner does not
matter. Polygamy is almost universally heterosexual, and only one person has
multiple spouses of a different gender. The most common form of polygamy by far
is polygyny, a marriage in which one man marries multiple women. In polyandry,
a rather rare social form, one woman marries multiple men.
Other differences between polyamory
and polygamy are religion, history, region where practiced, and social acceptance.
Polyamory is usually not connected to religion. Polygyny is
usually connected to religious cultures where men have multiple wives. The two
primary religious subcultures practicing polygyny in the United States are Muslims
(mostly African Americans, immigrants from Muslim cultures, and a few white converts)
and Fundamentalist Latter-day Saint/Fundamentalist Mormons who are almost
always white. There are also a few Christian sects in the United States who
allow polygyny.
The term “polyamory” was coined in
1990. The practice has had three “waves”: (1) Utopians, feminists, and
anarchists thought polyamory would cure “everything from capitalist oppression
to men’s tyrannical ownership of women. (2) “The second wave began with the ‘free
love’ portion of the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s, flourishing among
hippies, swingers, and disco dancers. (3) The current and largest wave “started
with the spread of Internet communication.” Polygamy began in biblical times.
Polygamy
is most common in Asia, the Middle East, and Africa where women have less
freedoms. Polyamory is more popular in areas that grant women more freedom and
access to religion – Australia, Canada, the United States, and Western Europe.
Both
polygamy and polyamory face some type of marginalization in some areas and both
are more accepted in some areas – polygamy in regions of Asia, the Middle East,
and Africa and polyamory in Seattle, London, Paris, and Stockholm. “Bigamy –
being married to two or more people at the same time – is illegal in the U.S.
and much of the world.”
The
speed with which same-sex marriage became legal was shocking. With polyamorous
and polygamous relationships gaining popularity in the nation and world and
with Democrats, liberals, and leftists controlling Congress, polyamory and
polygamy could be legalized quickly. The Church of Jesus Christ stopped
practicing polygamy because it became illegal. If the laws are changed – and the
Lord commands, members of the Church of Jesus Christ could one day be
practicing polygamy again.
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