Families, communities, and nations are strengthened
when parents properly teach their children.
In order for children to learn acceptable behavior, they must be taught
what is appropriate and what is not appropriate.
An ancient American king and prophet taught some
of the responsibilities of parents to his people. "And ye will not suffer your children
that they go hungry, or naked; neither will ye suffer that they transgress the
laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who
is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of by
our fathers, he being an enemy to all righteousness.
"But ye will teach them to walk in the ways
of truth and soberness; ye will teach them to love one another, and to serve
one another" (Book of Mormon -
Another Testament of Jesus Christ, Mosiah 4:14-15).
The youth and the young adults of our world today
are not behaving as they should. I would
be very embarrassed if any of my children or grandchildren were part of the
Occupy movement. I would be embarrassed
if any of them were part of the inappropriate distraction at the GOP Alaska
State Convention last week. Children and
youth must be allowed to exercise their agency, but they must also be taught
manners and proper ways to make their wishes known. This teaching can be started very early in
their lives. When my grandchildren
demand that I do something for them or give them something, I insist that they
ask me appropriately and use words such as please and thank you. If parents let their children become little
tyrants, they will act like tyrants when they are older. The teaching of appropriate behavior must
begin at an early age and continue as long as necessary.
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