Families,
communities, and nations are strengthened when we help the rising generation to
learn from the past. We understand that
human nature does not change; we also understand that many of the youth of
today are similar to us in our younger days when we thought we knew more than
our parents did about any given subject.
We learned as we matured that the older generations gained wisdom
through their personal experiences, and we seek wisdom from them.
I recently had the opportunity
to visit a couple whom my children adopted as their grandparents. Grandpa is nearly 91 years of age, and
Grandma is just a few years younger. We
met them approximately thirty years ago on one of their trips to Alaska. My husband took the older children to float
down the Gulkana River; I kept our youngest son with me as we dropped them off
and returned to camp. I was washing
dishes in our little trailer while my son played around outside. I noticed that he was missing and went
looking for him. I had barely stepped
out of the trailer when I saw him coming towards me holding the hand of an
older woman who was smiling. He had
wandered into their camp, and she brought him home. Our family has stayed in contact with them
since that day, and we have visited them whenever possible.
Since Grandma and Grandpa live
in another state, I see them every couple or so years when my husband and I are
near their home. This year we were
enjoying a normal conversation about their many travels since he retired from
working for a telephone company. I knew
they had done a lot of traveling around the United States and asked if they had
traveled to any foreign nations.
Grandpa immediately said yes –
and I recognized right away that he meant during World War II. I asked a few questions about where he served
and then sat back and enjoyed his great wisdom.
He marched across Africa with his Army unit and then went into Europe –
Sicily, Italy, Normandy, etc. After the
war with Germany was over, he was on a ship heading home when his ship was
turned around to go fight Japan. He
said that he saw all of the foreign countries that he wanted to see. The only country he would even consider
visiting again is Switzerland. When I questioned
why he liked Switzerland so much, he indicated that the people are very
friendly.
I have learned much from the
Greatest Generation. Since my own
parents as well as my husband’s parents have all passed on to a better world, I
am grateful that my children and grandchildren have these adopted grandparents
who continue to share their wisdom with me and my posterity. We can help the rising generation learn some
of the lessons of past history by sharing with them what we know and putting
them in contact with those who lived it.
Hopefully, we can teach them before they make fools of themselves like
the clerk in the following story.
When we learn from the past, we
can live better in the present and prepare for the future. I know that we can strengthen our families,
communities, and nations by learning from the past generations.
Being Green
Checking out at the store, the
young cashier suggested to the older woman that she should bring her own
grocery bags because plastic bags weren’t good for the environment. The woman apologized and explained, “We didn’t
have this green thing back in my earlier days.”
The young clerk responded,
“That’s our problem today. Your
generation did not care enough to save our environment for future generations.”
She was right – our generation
didn’t have the green thing in its day. Back
then, we returned milk bottles, soda bottles and beer bottles to the
store. The store sent them back to the
plant to be washed and sterilized and refilled, so it could use the same
bottles over and over. So they really
were truly recycled. But we didn’t have
the green thing back in our day.
Grocery stores bagged our
groceries in brown paper bags, that we reused for numerous things, most
memorable besides household garbage bags, was the use of brown paper bags as
book covers for our schoolbooks. This
was to ensure that public property (the books provided for our use by the
school) was not defaced by our scribblings.
Then we were able to personalize our books on the brown paper bags. But too bad we didn’t do the green thing back
then.
We walked up stairs, because we
didn’t have an escalator in every store and office building. We walked to the grocery store and did not
climb into a 300-horsepower machine every time we had to go two blocks. But she was right. We didn’t have the green thing in our day.
Back then, we washed the baby’s
diapers because we didn’t have the throwaway kind. We dried clothes on a line, not in an
energy-gobbling machine burning up 220 volts – wind and solar power really did
dry our clothes back in our day. Kids
got hand-me-down clothes from their brothers or sisters, not always brand-new
clothing. But that young lady is right;
we didn’t have the green thing back in our day.
Back then, we had one TV, or
radio, in the house – not a TV in every room.
And the TV had a small screen the size of a handkerchief (remember
them?), not a screen the size of the state of Montana. In the kitchen, we blended and stirred by
hand because we didn’t have electric machines to do everything for us. When we packaged a fragile item to send in
the mail, we used wadded up old newspapers to cushion it, not Styrofoam or
plastic bubble wrap. Back then, we
didn’t fire up an engine and burn gasoline just to cut the lawn. We used a push mower that ran on human
power. We exercised by working so we didn’t
need to go to a health club to run on treadmills that operate on electricity. But she’s right; we didn’t have the green
thing back then.
We drank from a fountain when we
were thirsty instead of using a cup or a plastic bottle every time we had a drink
of water. We refilled writing pens with
ink instead of buying a new pen, and we replaced the razor blades in a razor
instead of throwing away the whole razor just because the blade got dull. But we didn’t have the green thing back then.
Back then, people took the
streetcar or a bus and kids rode their bikes to school or walked instead of
turning their moms into a 24-hour taxi service.
We had one electrical outlet in a room, not an entire bank of sockets to
power a dozen appliances. And we didn’t
need a computerized gadget to receive a signal beamed from satellites 23,000
miles out in space in order to find the nearest burger joint.
But isn’t it sad the current
generation laments how wasteful we old folks were just because we didn’t have
the green thing back then?
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