Families, communities, and nations are stronger when they recognize the need for interventions and then make them. Someone wrote that America would be free of many issues if we had one generation of loving parents. Loving parents include those who make a secure attachment to each child by readily meeting an infant’s needs. They also include parents who use an authoritative style of parents – not too harsh (authoritarian), not to lax (passive), and not absent (uninvolved).
There
are numerous truths about child development of which parents should be aware.
Some of those truths are: (1) both nature and nurture affect the development of
children, (2) culture influences every part of human development and shows in
the beliefs and practices of childrearing, (3) children need to learn to
regulate themselves physically, cognitively, socially, and emotionally, (4)
children are actively involved in their own development, (5) relationships matter
and affect each other (parental relationships will affect the children, and children
will affect the parental relationship), (6) children are shaped by a
combination of sources of risk and sources of protection, (7) timing of
experiences is important, but children face risks and protective influences throughout
childhood, adolescence, and into adulthood, and (8) effective interventions can
be made and should be made earlier rather than later.
There
are all types of influences in our world that could be considered as vulnerability
or resilience. A loving family is one source of protective influence that strengthens
resilience, and a crime-filled neighborhood is one source of risk that brings vulnerability.
There are many other sources of risk or protection that affect children and
teens.
In
addition, there are individual differences in how children and teens grow and
mature. These differences make it difficult to distinguish between behavior
that may be normal but delayed, behavior that can be changed with intervention,
and situations that are permanent.
So
how does a parent determine when an issue will resolve itself and when an
intervention is needed. It is not easy to distinguish between them, but there
are professionals who can help parents to make problematic decisions.
One
thing that we should all remember – whether it is spending habit or an
out-of-control adolescent – the earlier an intervention is made, the more
effective it will be. By making necessary interventions, parents can strengthen
their families, communities, and nations.
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