Families are stronger when they start with a covenant made with God, and strong families strengthen communities, states, and nations. Being a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I am partial to marriages that begin in a holy temple. Marriages are stronger when both members of the couple continue to attend the temple as often as possible and preferably together.
It
is important that I admit that not all marriages that start with a church or
temple wedding succeed. However, a greater percentage of them do, and they are
more likely to stay strong when both members of the couple attend the temple
frequently.
I
would like to share my own temple experiences. My husband and I were married in
the Salt Lake Temple, and I returned as frequently as possible – not as often
as I should have but maybe monthly. We moved to Alaska where there was no temple
for the next twenty-six years. Therefore, my trips to the temple coincided with
trips to other states – Hawaii and Utah.
When
I made my annual trip to Utah, I allocated at least one entire day to attending
the temple. I would go early in the morning and do as many sessions as possible
before returning to my parents’ home for dinner. I felt a great need to “soak
up the temple experience” because I knew that I could not return until the next
trip.
During
those twenty-six years, I had a wise bishop who counseled the members of the
ward (congregation) to maintain a current temple recommend. He said that
holding a current temple recommend would increase our opportunities to attend
the temple. Therefore, I began to keep my temple recommend current, and I
learned that my bishop was incredibly wise with his counsel.
In
January 1999, the new Anchorage Alaska Temple was dedicated and opened for
temple service. For the past twenty-five years, I have completed weekly temple
service as frequently as possible.
Attendance
at this temple has not been as easy as at other temples. First, it is necessary
to make appointments to attend and only one appointment can be made per type of
session (initiatory, endowment, or sealing). Now that a new temple is being
built to replace the current temple, I make my next appointment soon after completing
my weekly temple session. Making appointments early is necessary because
participants in each session are limited due to parking restrictions. (The new
temple is being constructed near the current temple and restricts the available
parking spaces.)
In
addition to the need to be organized and to plan early, the number of sessions is
restricted to only two or three sessions per day for four days per week.
Despite the challenges involved in attending the temple, I attend as frequently
as possible because I need the experience.
I
strongly advocate for temple attendance because I know that temple service
makes us better disciples of Christ. Temple service strengthens marriages, and
strong marriages lead to stronger families, communities, states, and nations.
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