Children are blessings from God and make families stronger, and strong families strengthen communities, states, and nations. Most couples have children in a natural way, but many couples struggle with infertility. I recognize the heartache caused by infertility because I dealt with it personally until my doctor – through numerous tests – discovered that my ovaries were not working properly. He gave me a few pills to jump start my ovaries, and I now have six biological children born in the natural way.
Some
would say that the pills were a blessing. However, they carried their own set
of problems. One of those problems is that my first-born daughter miscarried
her only pregnancy. I am grateful to have my daughter, but I am sorry that my ovary
problem caused her infertility.
In-vitro fertilization is not the cure-all that most people think that it is for couples struggling with infertility. According to an article by the staff at Blaze TV, it rarely works and can cause issues for the mother and the child.
Jennifer
Lahl, founder of the Center for Bioethics and Culture Network, is one of the
leading voices sounding the alarm.
“IVF
is fraught with risk. It’s risky to the woman’s health; it’s risky to the
health of the unborn child,” Lahl tells Blaze TV host Allie Beth Stuckey on “Relatable.”
“You can just follow the CDC data, and for the last 10-plus years,
overwhelmingly, all IVF cycles fail.”
Data
is now coming out that IVF increases the chance of pregnancy-related complications,
like preterm labor and birth defects.
“My
grandson was born with a heart defect. And when his care was transferred to a
big university hospital in California, two independent pediatric cardiologists
there said, ‘Is he an IVF baby?’ He’s not, but in the medical literature, IVF
babies have much higher rates of congenital heart defects at birth,” Lahl
explains.
“Shouldn’t
that be something that at least could make us pause and think? We know that
pregnancy is risky; I know that, you know, any child that’s born healthy,
praise God, because there’s a lot of things that can go wrong to make children
born with all kinds of defects, but knowingly doing it, I think, is
problematic,” she continues.
Stuckey
has also done her research on the issues associated with IVF, and one of them
is a higher prevalence of the child being diagnosed with autism.
“Specifically
because there was a fertility problem on the father’s part. So that is because
say a dad has basically immobile sperm. They’re just not fast enough, strong
enough, to do what they have to do in the natural fertility reproduction
process,” Stuckey says, noting that in IVF they “take the sperm and put it on
the egg.”
“There
is a reason that that sperm isn’t working. There’s an underlying issue there
that will affect the baby that is born, because those sperm weren’t supposed to
re-create, and when you force them to re-create, then the baby is going to
inherit a lot of problems,” she adds.
“People
like to say, ‘We’re playing God,’ and I always say, ‘Well, no, because God
doesn’t play that way. We’re playing naughty people,’” Lahl agrees.
“There’s
a natural order to how things are supposed to work and how our bodies are
supposed to work, and even though the human body is incredibly resilient, our
fertility is very fragile,” she adds.
I know
a couple who are like family. They have seven beautiful children, all born
because of the blessing of IVF. They all came with healthy bodies and minds
with the youngest now being in their early 20s. I have not heard anything about
the two sons who are married having problems having children, but they all seem
to have come through the experience well.
It
sounds to me from what is written above that many of said problems come from
fathers with weak sperm, sperm that could not enter an egg naturally. In such
cases, doctors should inform the potential parents of the chances of future
problems. The medical profession should continue with the knowledge of what
works and what does not work to help infertile couples to enjoy the blessings
of parenthood. Children strengthen families, and strong families strengthen
their communities, states, and nations.
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