Betty Ford

                    First Lady Betty Ford was born as Elizabeth Ann Bloomer on April 8, 1918, in Chicago, Illinois.  She was the third child and only daughter of William Stephenson Bloomer, Sr. (July 19, 1874 - July 18, 1934), a traveling salesman for Royal Rubber Co., and his wife, Hortense (nee Neahr; July 11, 1884 - November 20, 1948).  Betty's two older brothers were Robert and William Jr.  The family lived briefly in Denver, Colorado, and then moved to Grand Rapids, Michigan.  Betty's ancestors may have come from England and Germany or Holland.  Her father's names appear to be English; her mother's maiden name "Neahr" was found among the Palatine Germans who settled in New York State and later migrated to Michigan and northern Illinois, but it could be of Holland Dutch origin.

                    Betty was 14 years old when the stock market crashed in 1929, and she had worked as a clothing model and a dance teacher for children (foxtrot, waltz, and big apple).  She also worked at the Mary Free Bed Home for Crippled Children where she entertained and worked with the children.  When Betty was 16 years old, her father was overcome by fumes while working under the car in the garage with the doors open.  He died of carbon monoxide poisoning the day before his 60th birthday.  Betty is described as being "short in stature" with brown hair and blue eyes.

                    Later Betty studied dance at the Calla Travis Dance Studio and graduated in 1835.  She graduated from Central High School in Grand Rapids, Michigan, in 1936, and wanted to continue her dance studies in New York City.  When her mother refused to give her approval, Betty spent two summers at the Bennington School of Dance in Bennington, Vermont, where she study under the director Martha Hill with choreographers Martha Graham and Hanya Holm.  When Graham accepted her as a student, Betty moved to New York City and financed her dance studies by working as a fashion model for the John Robert Powers firm.  She joined Graham's auxiliary dance troupe and eventually performed at Carnegie Hall in New York City with the company.

                    Betty's mother was still opposed to her choice of careers and wanted Betty to return home.  Betty and her mother compromised:  Betty would live at home for six months; her mother would no longer oppose her if she decided she wanted to return to New York City at the end of the six months.  Betty's mother won because Betty became so involved in her life in Grand Rapids that she never returned to New York City.

                    Dancing and modeling remained an important part of Betty's life.  She lived at home with her mother and her new husband while she worked as an assistant to the fashion coordinator at a local department store; she also organized her own dance group and taught dance lessons.

                    In 1942, Betty married William C. Warren, an insurance salesman.  The couple moved frequently with his work, and Betty found work in each place.  William was an alcoholic and in poor health; shortly after Betty decided to file for divorce, he went into a coma.  Betty nursed him back to health and then filed for divorce, effective September 22, 1947.  They had no children together.

                    More than a year later, on October 15, 1948, Betty married Gerald Ford at the Grace Episcopal Church.  Gerald was a lawyer and a World War II veteran, and he was campaigning for a seat in the U.S. House of Representatives - where he would serve for thirteen terms.  According to The New York Times, "Jerry was running for Congress and wasn't sure how voters might feel about his marrying a divorced ex-dancer."  The wedding was scheduled for just before the elections.

                    Gerald and Betty were married for fifty-eight years at the time of his death.  They were "openly affectionate" with each other and were not shy about showing their "mutual love and equal respect."  They were known for having a "strong personal and political partnership."

The Fords were parents of three sons and one daughter:  Michael Gerald Ford (born 1950), John Gardner Ford (nicknamed Jack; born 1952), Steven Meigs Ford (born 1956), and Susan Elizabeth Ford (born 1957).  Betty dealt with child discipline and punishment in constructive ways rather than spank her children.

The couple lived in the Virginia suburbs of Washington, D.C., for twenty-five years.  Gerald became the highest-ranking Republican in the House before being appointed to the office of Vice President by President Richard Nixon after the resignation of Spiro Agnew in 1973.  The next year, he was inaugurated as President of the United States because Nixon resigned rather than be impeached in the wake of the Watergate scandal.

Betty was a politically active presidential wife in setting social policy and creating precedents.  Even though she was more moderate and liberal and was opposed by some conservative Republicans, she had high approval ratings.  She was instrumental in raising awareness of breast cancer when she had a mastectomy in 1974.  She passionately and actively supported the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA), was pro-choice on abortion, and was a leader in the Women's Movement.  She was considered to be "one of the most candid first ladies in history" because she commented on every "hot-button issue of the time, including feminism, equal pay, the ERA, sex, drugs, abortion, and gun control.  She also raised awareness of addiction when she announced her long-running battle with alcoholism in the 1970s."

Mrs. Ford continued in the feminist movement after she left the White House.  She founded the Betty Ford Center, which is an alcohol treatment center and drug rehabilitation clinic for treating narcotic, chemical dependency, and addiction to alcohol, and served as the first chair of its board of directors. 

Betty and Gerald received the Congressional Gold Medal on October 21, 1998.  George H. W. Bush presented the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Betty in 1991.

Gerald and Betty Ford were the first President and First Lady to both live into their nineties; Ronald and Nancy Reagan became the second First Couple when Nancy turned 90 last year.

Gerald died at age 93 on December 26, 2006, at their Rancho Mirage home of heart failure.  Betty was part of his funeral events in California, Washington, D.C., and Michigan in spite of her frail physical condition.

Betty suffered from blood clots in her legs, poor health, and increasing frailty, and she died at age 93 of natural causes on July 8, 2011, at the Eisenhower Medical Center in Rancho Mirage.  Her first funeral service was held on July 12 in California and was attended by more than 800 people, including George W. Bush, Rosalyn Carter, Nancy Reagan, Hillary Rodham Clinton, and Michelle Obama.  On July 13, her casket was flown to Grand Rapids, Michigan, and taken to the Gerald Ford Museum for the night.  A second funeral service was held on July 14 at the Grace Episcopal Church, and Lynn Cheney gave one of the eulogies in which she noted that Gerald would have been 98 years old on July 14.  Bill Clinton, Dick Cheney, and Barbara Bush attended.  Betty was interred next to her husband on the museum grounds.

Greatness of Gerald Ford

                    Gerald Rudolph "Jerry" Ford (July 14, 1913 - December 26, 2006) is the only person to become President of the United States without first being elected by the Electoral College as either Vice President or President.  He was appointed to the office of Vice President under the terms of the 25th Amendment when Spiro Agnew resigned, and he became President on August 9, 1974, when Richard Nixon resigned.  Previous to those two positions he had represented Michigan's 5th Congressional District for 25 years and spent eight of those years as the Republican Minority Leader.

                    Due to the fact that North Vietnam defeated South Vietnam nine months after Ford took office, the involvement of the United States ended there.  Ford also signed the Helsinki Accords, which moved the Cold War toward détente.  The economy was weak during the Ford Administration, maybe the weakest economy since the Great Depression, and our nation had to deal with growing inflation and a recession during that time.

                    In a move to heal America from the effects of the corruption, which led to the resignation of Richard Nixon, Ford granted a presidential pardon to Nixon for his role in the Watergate scandal.  In the 1976 presidential election, Ford defeated Ronald Reagan for the Republican nomination by a narrow margin but lost the presidential election to Jimmy Carter.

                    I considered Gerald Ford to be a good President.  He had a reputation for his integrity and openness and was very popular during his twenty-five years in Congress.  There were no known disputes about his becoming Vice President, and Ford came into the office of President of the United States with the full support of its citizens.  He had a calm, friendly manner and an unquestioned reputation for honesty, which our nation greatly needed to restore our confidence in the office. 

About a month after his inauguration, Ford pardoned Nixon for all federal crimes that he might have committed as President - and lost many of his supporters.  Many Americans felt that Richard Nixon should be brought to trial for his part in the Watergate scandal; other Americans felt okay with the pardon if Nixon had admitted his part in the scandal.  The Watergate scandal stayed in the news for the entire Ford Administration; there was nothing that Ford could do to escape being "colored with the same brush" as Nixon.

I felt that Americans made a huge mistake by being so unforgiving to Ford.  We saddled ourselves with Jimmy Carter when we could have enjoyed a better life with Gerald Ford.  President Ford was dignified and treated his office with honor.  He loved our nation and wanted only what was best for us.  The was a greatness about the man that many people never recognized.

Ford remained active in the Republican Party after he left the White House.  He experienced health problems and died in his home on December 26, 2006, having lived longer than any other U.S. President.  He lived 93 years and 165 days.

Here are some quotes by President Gerald Ford that I consider to be very representative of the kind of man I saw while he served as President of the United States.

"My fellow Americans, our long national nightmare is over."

"An American tragedy in which we all have played a part."

"Our Constitution works.  Our great republic is a government of laws, not of men.  Here, the people rule."

"I am acutely aware that you have not elected me as your President by your ballots, so I ask you to confirm me with your prayers."

"The political lesson of Watergate is this:  Never again must America allow an arrogant, elite guard of political adolescents to by-pass the regular party organization and dictate the terms of a national election."

"There are no adequate substitutes for father, mother, and children bound together in a loving commitment to nurture and protect.  No government, no matter how well-intentioned, can take the place of the family in the scheme of things."

"For millions of men and women, the church has been the hospital for the soul, the school for the mind and the safe depository for moral ideas."

"My commitment to the security and future of Israel is based upon basic morality as well as enlightened self-interest.  Our role in supporting Israel honors our own heritage."

"A government big enough to give you everything you want is a government big enough to take from you everything you have."

"History and experience tell us that moral progress comes not in comfortable and complacent times, but out of trial and confusion."

"Even though this is late in an election year, there is no way we can go forward except together and no way anybody can win except by serving the people's urgent needs.  We cannot stand still or slip backwards.  We must go forward now together."